I’m a 41 year old woman that has two children. All of my life I have conformed who I am around making other people happy. When what I thought was love discarded me for a younger a woman, I went soul searching and found me. I was introduced to myself all over again. I learned what a narcissist is and how to be alone and comfortable, we all want love but after we find and love ourselves we are very careful about who we let into our circle.